Showing posts with label People. Show all posts
Showing posts with label People. Show all posts

Monday, 17 August 2026

A Septagarian's Wedding

PGS Old Boys with Neil in sling
Back in the 1970s and 1980s, weddings were regular events as the baby boomers, having had fun in the sixties, settled down with mortgages, children, and debt, which was ramped up by inflation. I had been a best man on five occasions for a school friend (Neil), a couple of university friends, a flatmate and my brother. This weekend was a party for Neil on his second wedding to Jessica, his partner of twenty-five years. 

His children and his grandchildren were there along with old school friends and others that I had met over the years. It was a relaxed affair deep in the bucolic fringe of the Lake District at a house and garden straight out of central casting. The marquee, piper, casks of real ale, sparkling wines and the chance to play croquet or table tennis were available, but so were a spectacular array of canapés that were interlaced with conversations from yonder years. No presents had been stipulated in the invite, and dress code was whatever was comfortable, although my choice of jeans was probably a bit naff.

Neil and Jessica had got married at the registry office in Edinburgh City Chambers back in April. The party had been put off until summer, when an outdoor event in a marquee and the grounds of an eighteenth-century house would be more appealing. The only problem was that Neil had fallen down a ladder and broken his ribs and left elbow when painting windows. Neil had been a fearless rock climber and had never fallen when climbing to a high standard in the Alps, the Lake District and Scotland; I could vouch for that, having seconded him up many climbs that had scared the hell out of me.

Jessica's mother hosted the event at her house. It started at 12:30 pm. Neil's stepmother was there, along with a motley assembly of friends and distant relatives who had negotiated the maze of local roads to a location so remote that it was absent on most satnavs. A nearby field was used for parking, and a handful of folk came on bikes. Neil and Jessica had met through cycling. 

The summer heatwave was finally over, and we were regaled by an artistic blue and white sky that induced a relaxed atmosphere, perfect for conversations that provided answers to life's journeys and secrets. I met a distant cousin of Neil, a retired Doctor from Herefordshire who had worked with my old girlfriend's brother, whom I had climbed with in the Avon Gorge. We both had memories of their eccentric Irish father who was the local GP in an idyllic Cotswold village. I met a Pilates teacher who promised to provide me with exercises to improve flexibility after my hip operation. Another of Neil's friends had married one of Neil's former girlfriends, whom I had inadvertently introduced to Neil during our underage drinking days. An old school friend had just published an illustrated children's book; he was always a talented cartoonist and had been an amazing javelin thrower. Jessica's brother was over from Montreal with his family and had 2 days before his flight home. He was taking his boys to Glencoe to climb Buachaille Etive Mor; I was able to show them photographs of the treat they had in store.

I chatted to Neil's children, in their forties now, and probably revealed some scurrilous episodes from Neil's past. I was asked by many about Ian, Neil's older brother and also a good friend who had sadly died in his mid-twenties after a badly executed operation. Neil and I had scattered his ashes on Scafell Pike on a miserable December day before drinking away our sorrows in an Ambleside pub. 

Guests had been asked to provide playlists for the dancing and eating in the marquee. The bubbly and casks of local ale kept people talking during the buffet. People rotated, shared stories and found common ground. The party had fizzed on as time whizzed by, and by 6pm people were drifting off to nether regions. I reflected on the way home that I had been to four funerals and a wedding in the past twelve months; it's a baby boomer's thing.  A film waiting to be made, perhaps?

Fit for a wedding

The setting

 

Tuesday, 2 June 2026

Running Scotland



Start at Kirk Yetholm

Cape Wrath
I have just returned from Cape Wrath, where Gregor ended his mammoth marathon-a-day run from Kirk Yetholm on the border with England to Cape Wrath. 420 miles in 17 days was a big ask, and, according to the lady in the cafe at Cape Wrath, it was the first time she was aware that anyone had run the entire Great Scottish Trail. The Cape Wrath Trail is the more usual long-distance run, but it starts at Fort William, which was Day 9 of Gregor's run. Running Scotland was in memory of Aileen and to raise funds for the Starthcarron Hospice. They had provided carers for Aileen for 12 weeks after she was discharged from hospital with terminal cancer, and where she spent her final days.

Gregor had spent several months planning the event, which was intended to be solo and working on a plan of roughly a marathon a day. Until Crianlarich (Falls of Falloch), it would be possible to get overnight accommodation with friends, relatives, at home or with me. I would drop him off in the morning and/or collect him at the end of most days. Hostel accommodation was booked in Glencoe, Fort William, and the Great Glen. Beyond that, it was difficult to find accommodation, so we hired a camper van for the final week. I returned from Fort William to collect the van from Glasgow and headed up to the Cluanie Inn, where Gregor had ended Day 10. 

On ten of the days, Gregor ran solo, but running friends, upon hearing of the Run, offered to accompany him on some of them. He had a couple of ultra runners with him on Day 3 over the Pentlands. An Edinburgh friend from the Scottish International team joined him along the Forth Clyde Canal on Day 4, and a schoolmate ran with him from the Falkirk Wheel to Denny. Another running friend accompanied him from Carron Valley Reservoir to Balfron on Day 5. His sister cycled with him on Days 9 and 10 as far as Kingie, and a Glasgow running friend accompanied him on Day 10 over the mountains to the Cluanie Inn. On Day 11, he was joined by an ultra runner from Argyll for the second part of the Day from Morvich to Killilan. On Day 12, a running acquaintance on holiday in Plockton who had been following his Instagram daily posts joined him for the Killilan to Strathcarron section. Thereafter, he was solo for the final 5 days

Kirk Yetholm to Cape Wrath in 17 Days

Date        Route                                                     Distance      Ascent  Time 

14 May    Kirk Yetholm - Bowden                            39.9km        759m    3hr 19min 

15 May    Bowden - Peebles                                      39.5km        923m    3hr 32min

16 May    Peebles - Almondell, East Calder              38.2km        688m    3hr 32min 

17 May    Almondell - Denny                                   42.2km       169m    3hr 33min

18 May    Denny - Milton of Buchanan                     42.4km        531m   3hr 22min 

19 May    Milton of Buchanan - Falls of Falloch       42.9km      1075m   4hr 22min 

20 May    Falls of Falloch - Kingshouse                    42.6km       987m   3hr 51min 

21 May    Kingshouse - Fort William                         34.8km      998m    3hr 22min

22 May    Fort William - Glen Garry                          36.1km      312m    3hr 10min

23 May    Glen Garry - Cluanie Inn                            41.6km       994m   4hr   7min

24 May    Cluanie Inn - Killilan                                  37.6km      938m    4hr 14min   

25 May    Killilan - Kinlochewe                                  42.4km      917m    4hr  5min

26 May    Kinlochewe- Inverlael                                 38.7km      775m    3hr 57min

27 May    Inverlael - Glen Okyel                                  42.1km    1032m    4hr 4min  

28 May    Glen Oykel - Duartmore Bridge                   42.2km     1030m   4hr 51min

29 May    Duartmore Bridge - Oldshoremore               35.7km      970m     3hr 10min

30 May    Oldshoremore - Cape Wrath                         22.8km      589m     2hr 21min             

Totals                                                                           661.7km    14721m   62hrs 52mins             

The weather was not kind, although the first three days were dry with sunny periods. The day to Denny was a succession of heavy rainstorms; the Loch Lomond section was perpetual rain, as was the day from Kinghouse to Fort William.  And the next four days had rain showers with low cloud on the hills. Days 13 to 15 were blessed with sun, great visibility, and temperatures climbing to 23 °C by Day 15. They coincided with sections through the very best of Scottish Mountain scenery. Gregor took a deserved rest during the hottest day, having run from Okyel Glen to Inchnadamph. We retreated to the Elphin Tea Room for a couple of hours to escape the searing midday sun with good food and highland hospitality. It worked;  Gregor's batteries were recharged for the long run to Kylesku and then 4 kilometres further to Duartmore Bridge. We headed to Scourie to the campsite to spend the night and fill up with water.  

Finally, two dullish days in the wild, remote coastal areas of Sutherland with a glint of sunshine from Sandwood Bay to Cape Wrath. On these days, the hardest part of the day after the run was posting the day's account on Instagram and Strava. He had committed to including text, photos, drone shots and music. And then the complications were charging the phone, drone, AirPods and watch from the camper van battery. Most nights, we were parked in wild locations that I had found close to the end of the sections.

On the final day, I dropped Gregor at Oldshoremore, where he had finished the night before we had retreated to Kinlochbervie to eat at the excellent Quay House in the transformed Seaman's Mission. I drove to the Kyle of Durness to get an early place in the queue for the 12:15 ferry for myself, Emily and Amy, who were driving up from Aviemore to be at the finish. The tiny ferry across the Kyle of Durness resembles a large tin bath and dropped us at a jetty where we waited for the minibus and the 13-mile ride to Cape Wrath through the MoD shooting range on a track that is little more than a linear pothole. Gregor got there before us, and after photos and a coffee in the cafe, we returned to civvy street. 

Miles had been run, and funds had been raised, over £17,000 as I write this. Gregor had shown immense determination and perseverance to capture memories that will last a lifetime. An Instagram Log of the trip can be found on trossachs_trails, and an interview on the Young Hearts Run Free Podcast. young hearts run free

Day 2 - Overnight stop outside Peebles

Day 4 - Almondell, West Calder

Day 6 - Falls of Falloch, West Highland Way underpass 

Day 7 - Bridge of Orchy

Day 7 - Rannoch Moor

Day 9 Towards Glen Gary

Day10 - Wading towards Glen Shiel

Day 11 - Beinn Fhada from Morvich

Day 11 - Dropping down to Killilan

Day 12 Killilan

Day 12 - leaving Killilan


Day 12 - still a long way to Kinlochewe

Day 12 - Beinn Eighe from Kinlochewe



Day 13 - heading for Fisherfield

Day 13 - Skimming Fisherfield

Day 13 - Corrieshalloch Gorge, near Ullapool

Day 13 Bluebells near Inverlael

Day 14 An Teallach from above Inverlael

Day 14 - Okyel Bridge - a great tea in the Hotel

Day 14 - Glen Okyel overnight camp,  Suilven and Ben Stack

Day15 Ben More Assynt

Day 15 - approaching Inchnadamph

Day 15 Elphin Tea Room - lunch

Day15 - Unapool

Day 15 - Kylesku Bridge




Day 16 

Day 16 Final overnight in camper van at Oldshoremore

Day 17 Arriving at Sandwood Bay

Day 17 Sandwood Bay

Day 17 - Cape Wrath, Relax



Friday, 22 August 2025

David Hume

 David Hume Tribute, 15 August 2025

 

Comrades, we are here today to think about David. To understand his curiosity, revere his intellect, enjoy his zest for life and spiky humour and remember his glorious idiosyncrasies.

 

In 1980, David had just completed a Master’s degree at the University of Wales Institute, Swansea. He applied for posts in my team that was responsible for Strategic Planning in the Strathclyde Region. He was one of 70 or so applicants. His application was detailed and meticulous; I short-leeted him without hesitation. At the interview, he was smartly turned out, engagingly polite and articulate, and he was knowledgeable and positive about our work. He was wooing the Depute Director, who was nominally in charge, but also giving me vibes about his commitment to social justice. He was a shoo-in for a post; I felt I had won the jackpot. In a recent email from David reflecting on his appointment, he said, “I was appointed on a Graduate Trainee Grade; I never took much notice of the actual salary. I was just thrilled to bits to be working for Strathclyde, and eventually, I squirmed my way up the greasy pole to higher levels.” On reflection, “these were the most satisfying days of my career.” 

 

He had joined a team of radical baby boomers; we were all in our twenties and had been gifted the responsibility to shape the development policies of Strathclyde Region, then half of Scotland’s population. We were led by some outstanding politicians who had a vision and determination to tackle the industrial and social decline of Glasgow and its region. As a team, we were committed to social justice, an end to paternalistic public services, community engagement and real ale. We challenged hierarchies and departmental silos, and we ignored moribund administrative procedures. In turn, we were regarded as disruptors by the embedded Directors and Depute Directors. 

 

Our unique selling point was that we were also collaborators, and David was one of the best. His confidence acquired at Heriots, his sense of entitlement nurtured at St Andrew’s University, the fieriness inculcated by his student days in Wales, along with his innate intelligence, allowed him to forge relationships with like-minded professionals across all departments as well as politicians. His desire and determination to tackle poverty and health improvement were as hardwired as his support for Hearts. 

 

David had many other qualities: an inner light, an intense curiosity, and a caustic wit that begat a wicked sense of humour. This could be brutal, but it was twinned with an infectious chuckling laugh that made you forgive him. Before David’s arrival, we had given politicians the evidence to abandon new town growth and focus on urban regeneration and to switch transport spending from roads to public transport. We had persuaded education and social work management to allocate resources according to need, not demand. David was passionate that we should now focus on poverty, health and well-being. He was fanatical about analysing and presenting empirical evidence to justify change; he was an influencer, like his famous namesake.  

 

He forged strong links with the Greater Glasgow Health Board to plot the distribution of GPs in relation to population and found there was little correlation. In the 1980s, Primary Care, like Pharmacies, Dentists, and Banks, was largely absent in the most deprived areas. We made a presentation to Greater Glasgow’s Chief Administrative Medical Officer, Sir Kenneth Calman. It resulted in a programme of new health centres that popped up in the housing schemes and inner-city regeneration areas. 

 

David researched variations in life expectancy across the Health Board area and found immense differences that directly correlated to the levels of deprivation. He compared Drumchapel and Bearsden, a mile apart, but with a 13-year gap in life expectancy. His presentation showcased his artistic bent; he created a horizontal bar chart with Drumchapel and Bearsden shown as two cigarettes. The short Drumchapel cigarette (short life) had a long ash to represent many years with a poor quality of life. Bearden was a far longer cigarette with a short ash. Life was good for far longer in Bearsden. David had nuanced the message that ‘adding life to years’ is probably more important than ‘adding years to life’. 

 

Next up, plumbo-solvency, David mapped where lead pipes existed in Glasgow - almost entirely in the areas of deprivation. It can harm mothers and unborn children and affect the mental development of children. We presented the findings to the Depute Director of Water, who was horrified. He immediately reprioritised the Water capital programme to eradicate the lead pipes in these areas. Along with the switch to public transport, this was another brick in the wall of infrastructure justice.

 

David had adapted to life in Glasgow; he had established a network of colleagues and friends from across the Council and other agencies – community workers, social workers, welfare rights officers, water engineers, accountants, health professionals, police officers and councillors. He had the advantage of coming from Edinburgh, so when asked who he supported, he replied Hearts. The weegies laughed; he was no threat to the old firm supporters. By this time, David had ingested another personality trait, the brutal humour of Glasgow. (David would have chuckled that Hearts were sitting on top of the league above the old firm on the day of his funeral.)  He bought a flat in the most deprived part of Glasgow, Bridgeton, handy for Glasgow Green, the Barras and the People's Palace. It gave him kudos with the social workers, teachers and doctors who may have shared his social conscience but lived in the West End and Shawlands. 

 

David’s analysis of public service provision showed the unintended consequences of Scotland’s post-war policies of New Towns and large housing schemes. The failure of the Scottish Office, Councils, Health Boards and other public bodies to shift resources to where they could eradicate poverty, increase opportunities, and improve the quality of life had resulted in the worst urban deprivation in the UK.  He took this knowledge and his diagnostic skills to Lothian Regional Council. 

 

I kept in regular touch with David as his career flourished in Lothian, Edinburgh and then as the Chief Executive of Scottish Borders. We both ended up as Chief Executives, and we arranged joint learning sessions between our Management Teams. We would phone each other and discuss wicked issues as they arose. David’s ambition was to make the Borders more Scandinavian. He admired that they had a far lower Gini coefficient (a measure of a country’s inequality) than the UK. He drove a Saab, read Henning Mankell’s novels and fantasised over Borgen and the Bridge; he holidayed in Denmark. I always expected him to erect a mermaid outside the Council Offices at St Boswells. 

 

David was a poly hobbyist, I’m not sure there is such a word, but it would fit. He was a high achiever, a walking thesaurus. His writing skills were exemplary, his reports could move opinions by his deft use of words that had a feeling, freshness, ambiguity and mischievous innuendo. Making a list of David’s eclectic hobbies is a smorgasbord of activities and interests. As well as motor bikes and small- bore rifle shooting, handy if you want to get on the Police Scotland Board, he was also into cycling, archery, jazz, folk music, bubble cars, opera, classical music, art, philosophy, geography, Edinburgh, France, good food, Welsh politics, winnebagos, podcasts, BBC Radio and Scandi everything, particularly that yellow Porsche in the Bridge. 

 

After retiring, David took on work including being on the Board of Police Scotland and a group commissioned by the Welsh Labour Party that produced a report on Radical Federalism published in 2021. He carried out assignments for other councils and performed performance appraisals of chief executives. He was involved in the Joseph Rowntree Foundation and an avid follower of politics. 

 

He became an active member of the Mercat Group of former Chief Executives. We bonded during COVID on Friday night Zoom meets. We wrote papers, produced videos of lessons and events from our lived experiences. David can be seen and heard in full flow on the Knowledge Hub. We ranted about the government’s response to Covid, slipped the light fandango and had silly competitions. What was your favourite car? What would make a good national anthem for Scotland? David always liked to win and would submit exquisitely constructed entries. His best car was a Heinkel, a German bubble car that looked like the cockpit of a fighter plane but with three wheels instead of wings. David bought one in his final year at school and told us with the innocence of an ageing boomer that as he cruised past Gillespie’s girls’ school, he received cheers and lustful looks from the girls. This was Tinder for a baby boomer.

 

Our entries for a new National anthem included “a wee doch and dorit” by Harry Lauder, “Hermless” by Michael Marra, and Gerry Rafferty’s “Get it Right Next Time”. David was incandescent with rage. He sent us an email:

What a folly it would be to open up the selection of a new National Anthem to the suggestions from the lumpen proletariat. The choice of a new anthem should be made by people of taste and discernment. With that in mind, my proposal is that the concert overture ‘The Land of the Mountain and the Flood’ composed by Hamish McCunn, is adopted as the new National Anthem for Scotland. Gerry Rafferty won. “Get it Right Next Time” is an essential Scottish Idiom!

 

David’s love of music led him to be invited to join a choir by one of his former Strathclyde colleagues. The choir organised regular singing courses in France and the north of England. He found his singing voice and became a soloist during performances at these events. He became the darling of the women members who enjoyed his talent, his friendliness and wry sense of humour. It was a reprise of his bubble car days.

 

David helped organise twice-yearly reunions of the Strathclyde team; our last meeting had been the 50th anniversary of the team being formed. Ten of us turned up, nine with bus passes; David came by car and received a parking ticket. Just before he left for France, he phoned to tell me the reunion for June was postponed. As always, our discussion drifted to current affairs, books we had read and podcasts worth a listen. Then on to the disruptions of Trump and how the centralised decision-making of Westminster and Holyrood not only lacked pace. It failed to tackle the wicked issues like taxation, devolving power and social care. They had strangled local democracy, ignored local knowledge and geographies and failed to harness the latent energy and innovation of our communities and businesses. 

 

Councils had been too docile in letting this happen. Our endorphins had kicked in, and we segued into reasons why taxation, benefits, housing and climate action needed some progressive disruption. A step change to eliminate the inordinate delays, short-termism, treasury rules and big corporate lobbying. Far more decisions must be devolved to the local level, where real knowledge, innovation and community energy would drive progress. Centralisation had been the modus operandi of Holyrood as well as Westminster and needed to be reversed. We were coasting along to an epiphany or overdosing on the euphoria of hope. We agreed to produce a paper on ‘disruption for revitalising local democracy’ when David returned. It appealed to our baby boomer instincts; we had been serial disrupters, and the fires of vision were still flickering.

 

David’s mission in life had been to gather evidence, challenge conventional thinking and collaborate with others to address poverty and achieve a more just and fair society. This required hard evidence, exemplars, collaboration, friendship, and a wee bit of humour. Perhaps we should gather David’s thoughts and draft a treatise that captures his vision for a more locally democratic, innovative and responsive way of delivering public services.

 

Claire, Katie and Lyndsey, we are celebrating the contribution your dad made to public services. We know he committed a lot of time to this, and we were responsible for exploiting his unfailing desire to improve outcomes for people and places. In our recent conversations, he spoke with emotion, sharing his immense love and pride in you all and what you had achieved. He dearly wished he had been able to spend more time with you. 



Sunday, 26 January 2025

A Baby Boomer's Reunion

Margo, after we were the last out

23 January 2025

We met at Margo, a Glasgow restaurant, for the 50th anniversary of the formation of Strathclyde's Regional Report team. There were ten of us at the reunion: four Davids, Kathy, Rob, Keith, Laurie, Gerhard and Sue - names straight from the post-war inventory of Christian names.

In February 1975, four of us, two from the West Central Scotland Plan, David and I and two from the Glasgow Corporation Planning Department, Sue and Linda, met for lunch in a pub across Gordon Street from Central Station. We had been recruited to produce a Regional Strategy for the shortly to be established Strathclyde Region. We were all in our mid-twenties, had four planning degrees, two geography degrees and an Oxford PPE degree, but only 15 years of work experience between us. We recruited 6 new graduates to help us, bringing the team's average age down to 24 years. We were boomer scribblers and disrupters. 

We were innocent of the planning policies that had led to the demolition of much of the urban fabric of Glasgow and its surrounding towns. Nor were we responsible for the planning of large housing schemes and new towns that had failed to provide the range of essential public and private services for these new communities. Instead, we were armed with knowledge of threshold analysis, multiple regression analysis, and demographic projection models and shared a collective vision of social justice. We had the field to ourselves; only the senior deputy director had any experience in strategic planning, and he was both our mentor and severest critic.

Tight timescales melded us into a team, and politicians who were determined to tackle the inequities arising from collapsing industries, social deprivation, unemployment, and poor-quality services from schools to child care to housing gave us encouragement. Despite, or perhaps because of, our relative ignorance of the nuances of bureaucratic behaviour, politicians eager to make changes gave us license. We were less popular with senior managers defending the past and fending off politicians with a litany of excuses based on financial regulations and legal requirements. 

We completed the Regional Report within a year. The population and household projections that we produced for Strathclyde were realistic and replaced the grossly optimistic trend projections of the Registrar General. We prepared a strategy for urban regeneration and made proposals for reallocating resources towards disadvantaged communities and groups. The investment was shifted to public transport rather than urban motorways. We recommended the cancellation of Stonehouse New Town and two new communities at Lennoxtown and Houston, and for setting up of a major project for Glasgow's Eastern Area Renewal. 

We had been an unwitting but disruptive influence in establishing a new model of local government, one that shifted resources from well-served affluent suburbs and new towns to run-down urban areas and housing schemes that lacked both public and private services and the transformation was delivered at pace. A Scottish Development Agency was created to focus on supporting indigenous industry and the clearance of derelict land, and the Housing Corporation was established, which in turn created 29 housing associations to modernise Glasgow's tenements. These happened as part of the outcome of the Regional Report during discussions with the Scottish Office.

We developed a network of contacts across all departments who shared the vision of the politicians. We also had our detractors in high places who resented a bunch of boomers disrupting long-established administrative procedures, challenging hierarchies and usurping their influence. In the next few years, we focused on developing area initiatives, providing evidence for shifting human and financial resources to needy areas and groups. We worked with colleagues in other departments to reshape policies on community development, children in care, pre-school, the elderly, disability, homelessness and addiction. We consulted with District Councils to provide housing policies responsive to the growing needs of the elderly, disabled, single parents and the single homeless. We were more active in corporate planning than physical planning, and this was recognised by the politicians who insisted that we become part of a reshaped Council management structure in 1980. By this time, with comings and goings, there had been 18 people on the team.

We were transferred in August 1980 to a new Chief Executive's department with 350 staff. The department was responsible for all administrative, policy, legal, civic and partnership functions. It may seem excessive, but Strathclyde was the largest council in the UK, providing services to 2.5 million people with 25 departments and 103,000 employees.

The Regional Report team became the Housing and Social Policy team, whilst some of us were made responsible for urban regeneration. Over the years, people drifted to other jobs in other departments and other organisations, particularly after the 1996 reorganisation of local government that disbanded Strathclyde Regional Council. The Council had been too successful in challenging the blandishments of Mrs Thatcher's neo-liberal policies and resisting the Community Charge (Poll Tax). The team's experience had prepared them for a wide range of careers. They had morphed into the Chief Statistician for Scotland, three Chief Executives, one Depute Chief Executive, two Directors of Housing, a Director of Health, a Director of Tourism, two Professors, two Depute Directors of Social Work and various other managerial positions.

It was typical of the baby boomers era that the two brightest stars, Sue and Linda, weren't on the list above. Linda died of breast cancer at the age of 31, and Sue left to have a family. After being out of the labour market for several years, she returned, initially part-time, as a planning officer in various councils in the South East, where her husband had become a Director of Planning. Her ability to sift information, write and talk with clarity and nurture those around her was diluted in the man's world of boomer Britain. Most of the old team had not seen Sue for 45 years. I collected her from Central Station. After deliberating what had happened to the pub where we had first met in 1975, I suspect it's a Sainsbury's Local, and a coffee in the Gallery of Modern Art, we wandered along to Margo.

There were many confused faces as we entered Margo. I had not told them that I had invited Sue. The other team members were sifting through their brains to recognise the secret guest.  Sue then laughed, a laugh so loud that it could shake the Humber Bridge. She was brought up in Grimsby. It was a timeless memory, the background noise of working in a happy team. Sue also fires off questions quicker than she could fillet a fish. She had worked in a fish factory before starting university and reckons that standing in a line of 30 women in a fish factory for 8-hour shifts meant that she had learnt how to work and talk at the speed of the conveyor belt. She was multi-skilled, intrigued by engaging in quirky topics, just as bizarre but probably more amusing than those in Planning.

It was a happy and successful fiftieth anniversary. Sue bought a couple of bottles of Champagne, and everyone enjoyed the stories of how their lives had unravelled. It was almost 5pm when we left. Margo was empty, David Hume had come by car, got a parking ticket, and had to drive home sober. The rest of us had come by bus on our entitlement cards; we retired to the Atlantic Bar to continue the fun. There is talk of another reunion before we are subjected to care homes. 

Gallery of Modern Art


Sunday, 24 November 2024

Farewell



Remembering Aileen

View from the lair - Ben Ledi

Norrieston Church

22 November, 2024

Today we buried Aileen's ashes in the local cemetery. It had been a while since her funeral, during which time we sought to find the most suitable resting place. We had hoped to buy a lair in the Trossachs Church graveyard where we had married. It was located close to where we had lived for 34 years, but the cemetery was full and, according to the minister, the church was likely to be sold shortly. We eventually decided on the local cemetery where Aileen and I had lived for 4 years after building a house that Aileen had spec'd and adored. She loved the open skies and the views of Ben Ledi and the Campsies from the house. A lair with a view of Ben Ledi would embrace those memories. Her parents had lived in a cottage, Blairgarry, on Loch Venachar below the slopes of Ben Ledi. It was where we spent many weekends in the year before we got married, and her parents had retired to live there. We visited most weekends after the family arrived. Blairgarry had a timeless tranquillity that Aileen found calming away from the hurly-burly of working whilst raising a family.

We met with the Funeral Director and the Council cemetery officer at the lair in the well-kept village graveyard next to Norrieston Church. After lowering her casket to the ground, we took some time to reflect and silently make our farewells. Aileen was serene, selfless, honest, modest, loyal, principled, perceptive, thoughtful, dedicated to the family, mischievous and funny. She nurtured our three children, each distinctively successful in their fields. She worked successfully as an editor in two private and two public organisations, where she gained both respect and promotions. She was actively involved in playgroups, school parent committees, and school boards (she edited the Scottish Office guidance for them). She had looked after her elderly parents in their final years and was involved in the board of the local care home. She participated in book groups and even managed to read the books. She was the glue and beating heart of the wider family.

She was a francophile, and after retirement, she attended French classes at the Alliance Française. She loved the simple pleasures of conversing and travelling to villages and towns in France, soaking up the culture and glorious landscapes. In Scotland, her favourite haunts were the Isle of Coll, Edinburgh and the Torridons, Shieldaig being a very special place. She was besotted by Italy and Venice in particular. Still, her most magical place was Namibia, with its crystal clear air, expansive African skies and wildlife roaming free in the raw arid landscapes.

We reflected on these qualities and pleasures after leaving the cemetery. It was a cold but sunny day as we drove to some of her favourite places in the vicinity. We visited Loch Venachar and Blairgarry, Brig o' Turk, the Glen Finglas reservoir, Loch Katrine, the Duke's Pass, Aberfoyle, the woods behind Nimlah, where we had lived for 30 years, Loch Ard and the Lake of Menteith. It was a wonderful way to think about her, remember happy days and share stories. At almost every location, a Robin would appear.

We had lunch in the Brig o' Turk tea room, where we had many meals when the children were young, and they were welcomed by the friendly owners. We had dinner in the Lake of Menteith Hotel on a frosty evening before Storm Bert barrelled in overnight. It snowed, and the next morning it was a tricky journey into Stirling for Eva to catch her train back to London. 

New House - to Aileen's design

Our room with a view

Nimlah - home for 30 years

Callander

Glen Finglas 

Brig o' Turk Tea Room- our local bistro

View from the Trossachs Church, where we were married

Loch Katrine

Ben A'an from the Loch Katrine viewpoint

Ben A'an at Christmas

Super Mum - Pollock Grounds

Working Mum

On Safari, Namibia

Granny time

Celebrating another Munro Round

Last trip to Venice

Ben A'an and Loch Katrine during Covid

Loch Venachar and Ben Ledi

 Robin, with us all day